Ideas For Attitudes Towards Bullying

Manta_
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posted : 30.07.2011

Hello bullybusters,

I have been through both physical and verbal bullying for quite some time now. I have a 'friend' who is the bully. It is very odd. One moment he will laugh with me, agree with me, like me but then the next he is pinching me, punching me, laughing AT me and etc. It is horrible. Last week, final week at school, he and his friend (who hates me for a reason I am unaware of) dragged me to a bench and started throwing empty bottles at me. I felt so sad. It was un real. To be honest, I have had enough and just want to stand up and show them that I AM confident and I shouldn't be messed around with.

I have ideas for new attitdues. I was thinking of adopting the 'I don't care' attitude whereby I just simply laugh or smile at them whilst they bully me, and therefore no reaction = the bullying stops. However, if this does not work, I might be regarded as a strange as the enviroment would be in a classroom or full courtyard where there would be lots of classmates, including some of my close friends.
I just need some help as am sick of this happening and just want it to end. I have enough troubles with regard to my family and simply don't have time for silly little teenagers acting like 5 year olds and throwing bottles at me ! I need advice and help !

Many thanks,
-Manta_

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