dont know what to do anymore :/

Life?
Member

posted : 03.05.2010

hi, sorry. :/ erm, im in year 9 and one of my "best friends" has started to be mean to me. we were great untill she got a boyfriend, and a few weeks ago they both made nasty groups about me, and her boyfriend posted over 10 statuses about me, everyone was laughing at me and now ive been bunking off school, staying in the house because im too scared to go out and ive been self harming. i realy dont know what to do, i feel like i should kill myself because ino no one wants me here anymore. all my other friends are saying things about me behind my back and everyones joined my "best mate" emily. i want to move schools. i dont like my school anymore, all girls schools are horible, its just constant bullying. they have all been saying i should go and kill my self, they say i wont though, but i actualy got realy close last week. but my dad walked in and he started to cry. it was horible. also my ex boyfriend has been saying things and i keep getting pushed into doors and being left out in lessons by emily and her gang. please, just end this pain. i cant take it anymore. anyone want to give me any advice :/ x

barbie
Member

posted : 04.05.2010

insted of trying to kill yourself if they get you anrgrey then hit them my mum and dad always tell me too but its one way too get rid of the fear of going to school and dont kill yoourself because how do you think your mum dad and all of your familey will feel :( no one wants to see you die and even tho your best friend has turned on you it might be because the people who are saying all of this might be telling her to do it because she mit be scared

BullyBuster
Administrator

posted : 06.05.2010

Hiya. Can I firstly respond to Life? I am so very sorry to hear that you are having such a hard time at the moment. Sometimes people we think of as 'best friends' can hurt us. If the person doing this was not your friend it probably wouldn't hurt so much. Can you tell an adult how you feel ? I know that this may sound like a lot to ask but you have been so brave in telling us but the only people who can help you are the trusted adults around you. If you can not tell a family member then perhaps a teacher or learning mentor at school. Would we be able to help you with this. You could give our free phone help line a call and if you wanted us to we could contact the school on your behalf. I know that it doesn't feel like it at the moment, but there are lots of people around who may be able to help you if you give them the chance. If what emily's boyfriend has been putting on the internet about you is abusive or threatening, then you could go onto the 'Think you know' website and report the abuse. I know that you have mentioned that you have been self - harming and have even contemplated suicide and I was wondering if you would be willing to maybe discuss this with your doctor or maybe a nurse ? Please do give someone the opportunity to support you through this, you didn't ask for this situation and you have done nothing wrong. If you don't feel as though you could talk to us over the phone, then you can e-mail directly through to BullyBusters, even providing a phone number for us to contact you on if you wish. We are here to help and would welcome the opportunity to support you.

For Barbie. Thank you for offering support to Life? We agree that no one would like to see the death of any young person, but cannot agree with your advice to hit out at the people who are hurting life?., as this can lead into a fight and does very little to resolve the situation. As an organisation we are here to support any young person who is experiencing bullying and would be more than happy to contact the school if asked to. If there is anything that you would like us to support you with then please do not hesitate to contact us either via our free phone helpline, or by direct e-mail. Thanks again for trying to support Life?

Life?
Member

posted : 07.05.2010

hello, my mum found out about what they had been saying and she caled emilys mum up, but emily has been worse since. she has been saying things about me behind my back and getting everyone to ignore me, and she has been spreading rumours about me. today my mum went into school to see the head of year as this has been going on for about 3 weeks now since easter and it was hard telling the year head whats been happening. i feel like a snich now :/. on monday my year head is going to talk to emily about it then she is going to make me go in a room with the head and emily and talk things through. i dont know how thats going to be. to be honest im actualy quite scared incase she says something mean about me or tried to hit me again. thanks for the advice :) it helped alot x

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