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active listening/counselling-based approaches - 11 to 18 years

These methods combine befriending and mediation with pupils counselling peers in distress. They involve referral by adults, a drop-in service at designated times, work with tutor groups, and observation of vulnerable pupils during lunch hours and break-time. In some systems, pupils operate a telephone helpline. The skills needed are similar to peer mediation.

Typically: 

  • pupils nominate and vote for likely peer supporters (alternatively, teachers can select pupils, thus retaining more control)
  • a panel of adults and existing peer supporters short-list and interview volunteers
  • selected pupils train through role-play, discussion and supervision (often carried out by a qualified counsellor or psychologist)

It is more difficult to recruit boys than girls, and their drop-out rate is higher because of peer pressure. Some peer supporters report hoax calls and referrals, adverse comments, jealousy, or doubts expressed about their ability. Where levels of aggression are high, peer supporters may struggle to challenge the culture of bullying. However, where peer support systems are firmly established the climate in schools can improve and victims of bullying find it easier to tell another person.

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