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rachelxoxo Member posted : 18.06.2010
i have been picked on by this girl, for years, she wont let the past drop and i didn'y even do anything to her in the first place, she has been saying stuff over msn buut i have saved the messages so hopefully can use them to my advantage, things have got so bad recently i couldn't cope and just walked out of school because of her, she is turning my friends agianst me and i don't kno what else to do please help me it's becoming unbearable, i have talked to my mum about it and she has gone up to the school to talk to our headmaster, he is gonna talk to my form tutor, but im scared she is gonna minupulate her to her side of the story making out that she is the victim in all off this, when she is not please help me
BullyBuster Administrator posted : 21.06.2010
Hiya Rachelxoxo, I'm sorry to hear that you have been having such a bad time lately. It's important that you attend school and your school by law has a duty to keep you safe whilst you are there. Do you have a learning mentor or a school counsellor that you could talk to about what's been going on, or perhaps a teacher that you trust? By saying stuff over MSN she is cyber bullying and this is against the law. Cyber bullying is when someone uses technology to deliberately upset someone else. This is a form of bullying and you shouldn’t have to put up with it. It's good that you have saved the messages, as these can be printed and be used as proof to catch the bully. You could show these to your form teacher. It is important that you save all evidence you have of the bullying. If you have nasty emails or things posted on your profile save them to your machine so you can use it as proof. Save texts or voicemails that say anything horrible. You could also block the bully on MSN or delete her from your contacts. We also always advise to keep a diary of the 4 W's, who, what, where, and when so that you have evidence to show teachers etc. Remeber that you have done absolutely nothing wrong, and it is not your fault that this girl has been doing this to you. It is bullying and it needs to be stopped. If you need someone to talk things over with, then please call our helpline, Monday to Friday, 3.00pm -6.00pm and talk to one of our advisors. The number is 0800 169 6928.
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