hels
Member
posted : 19.11.2008
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Ok so i knew it may sound wired
but theres a boy at school and he always says stuff like hi babe can i have your number, and other stuff i probs should not say and the hole class will laugh at me its horrible. But then when i get on the bus this girl gets bullied and i find my self joining in and mocking her just so they dont bully me
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BullyBuster
Administrator
posted : 20.11.2008
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Hiya Hels, Thankyou for contacting BullyBusters. It sounds as though you are having a tough time off it at the moment. When you are on the bus it is very easy to get into going along with something rather than risk going against them. It is really lovely that you are concerned for this girl. If you don't feel that you can stand out against the bullies maybe you could offer to sit next to this girl, or approach her away from them and ask her if she is ok ?. Perhaps you could even tell her that she too can contact us !. As for what is happening in the class, maybe you could think of a witty reply to come back at this boy with when he is asking for your number. If you were able to come back at him with something funny which switched the attention away from you and instead had everyone laughing at him, then he may think twice about what he is doing in future.
You can always ring our helpline for advice on 0800169 6928, and we may be able to help with thinking up with you some appropriate comebacks !!!
Take care Hels, BullyBusters Officer.
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