I think my child is being bullied
If you think your child is being bullied, it is a good idea to ask
them if this is the case. It is crucial that you remain patient,
calm giving your child the time and space to talk and explain what
exactly has been happening.
If your child assures you that they are not being bullied, still
let them know they can always count on you for help.
It is important to reassure your child that no matter what they
tell you, that you will not act rashly involving them in any
decisions on a course of action. This will give your child a sense
of control over the situation, which is important as being bullied
can often make a child feel powerless.
how parents can help:
- Talk with, listen to, and support your child. Do not shout no
matter how frustrated you are.
- Make the school aware that there is a problem.
- Be firm and assertive in your dealings with the education
authorities.
- Remain patient, calm and constructive with your child.
- Be familiar of the signs of bullying.
- never agree to keep the bullying a secret.
- If your child is bullying others, don't dismiss it as unimportant.
- Reassure your child that it’s not their fault.
- DON'T
tell them to hit back, if your child was going to do this they
would have done it without you telling them to. If they hit back,
and if it doesn't work this can leave them with a bigger sense
of failure and feel they have let you down.
- You may feel angry and upset, but work with the School to resolve
the problem.
- Call BullyBusters for further advice, we can support you to get the
best outcome for your child 0800 169 6928
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